“Don’t you have some enlightened friend John?”
“I sometimes had to work / live / deal with people with a kind of energy that’s… (I don’t know which word I need) like they tend to be defensive and create conflict out of nothing and attack with words, expressions, trying to make you feel bad or just throwing their stress on you.
It always shocks me and I understand that what is happening to them is really not about me,
but most of the time that kind of behavior, it ends up making me feel nervous too (when I was just good before).
Like if at that moment their energy is stronger than mine
or I just don’t know how to answer to it.
Has it happened to you?
How did you deal with it?”